Re: A Season of Destinies
Well, it’s happened. I am engaged. I didn’t quite have an idea of what I was talking about, earlier this year, when I wrote that things were stirring in the air. But, quite to my surprise, I met a girl...
View ArticleThe Hot Girl Myth
Today, a simple idea. Mainly for the men. But women should read too. Recently I asked Nicole to marry me. In looking back, I’m actually bemused to have arrived at this point. Not about her, but that I...
View ArticleWhy intimacy isn’t scary anymore
I’ll shut up about my relationship status sometime soon. But, not today. A month ago I was catching up with my friend Jen*, and telling her I was feeling pretty certain about proposing to Nicole. She...
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How to dodge the mid-life crisis, and save your marriage
There was once a rich dad who had two sons. The younger son always seemed discontent and perhaps a bit spoiled. One day, this son decided he wanted to take all the money his parents had saved him for...
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Not my type
Let’s take a sec to consider the notion of type. We like to run with the idea that a certain “type” of woman (or man) is our ideal partner. I would guess this notion develops from our own experiences...
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Toward a theory of beauty (part 1)
I’ve written at length already about how my understanding of beauty and attraction has changed over the last year. Still, I think there’s more than might be useful to lay out. Today I’ll try to map out...
View ArticleToward a theory of beauty (part 2)
This past Tuesday I noted a couple of things about beauty. First, my experience suggests that the phenomenon of beauty is a highly composite thing. Second, there are a couple of visual factors that...
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How to know if you’re in a good relationship
It’s Valentine’s Day, and this one has been in the pipe for a while, so I might as well finish it. The question is: how do you tell if you’re in a good relationship or not? [Warning: answer comes...
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